7 Simple Ways Of Getting Back At Your Ex
Getting back at your ex after a break up, may feel very rewarding at the time. But in reality is this really the way to go?
As stressful and heart breaking as a relationship split can be, getting back at your ex by putting them in an interesting situation can not only show them how important you where and still are. But just may be the sticky glue that bonds your relationship back together. I have put together 7 very simple tips for getting back at your ex, but remember these may also be the tips that push you and your ex back together!
1. Bend with the wind; Try not to be over demanding, be the listener, flexible and the shoulder to cry on. Once your ex see`s this side to your nature it will take them by surprise, and who knows it may open up new lines of communication.
2. Become super tough; when a relationship breaks down, some of us become the “super needy”. Now no one likes clinging, or a “please, please, please beggar. Be strong not desperate, let your ex think your over them and you`ve moved on.
3. Shut the door on chatting; Now you may think that not talking to your ex partner is “counteractive”, but you must understand the most important part of getting back at your ex or even getting back together with your ex, is to cut all lines of communication and take a break to yourself. This allows both parties time to think and clear things in their own mind, about the relationship.
4. Don`t be a loner; A relationship break up is no time to be alone, call friends and arrange days and nights out. Hitting the clubs doesn`t have to mean mixing with the opposite sex, not only will this be a new sense of freedom but it`s also therapeutic for you. Bumping into your ex may not be a bad thing either, it may make them realise how great you were. Now that`s getting back at your ex, big time!
5. Who you trying to be? Never try to be someone else that you`re not, the reason your ex fell for you in the first place was because of how you are. Go back to being this person and you`re ex will surely see the new you also.
6. Don`t be an over complicater; Always try to keep communication between yourself and your ex simple, don`t argue over the simplest things. If they have to arrange a time to pick up their belongings, bend to give them options. Getting back at your ex doesn`t have to be a nasty affair as long as you keep it simple.
7. Never be the foghorn; How would you feel if you bumped into your ex`s friends and they started laughing, only for you to realise your relationship had become “friends front page news”. NEVER EVER slag your ex off to your or his friends, this only leads to anger and resentment. Telling stories or tales (no matter how true when first told) never did anyone any good, only harm. There are other ways to getting back at your ex, but what if you then decide you want them back?